Seeing the Game Through a Different Lens
Coaching a child is not just about winning games. It is about shaping character, building confidence, and guiding them through challenges both on and off the field. Threw These Eyes: Advice for Dads and Coaches by Doug Brainard gives readers a fresh look at what it truly means to coach with patience, purpose, and understanding. This book speaks directly to parents and coaches who want to support young athletes without losing sight of what really matters.
What makes this book stand out is its honest, real-world approach. It does not focus only on strategies or technical skills. Instead, it looks at the emotional and mental side of coaching children, recognizing that every child experiences sports differently. Drawing from years of personal coaching experience, Doug Brainard offers practical insights that help readers guide young players through both victories and setbacks while building lasting relationships.
The things we teach now, if taught properly, lay the groundwork for a foundation. Each time we play or practice, make sure something is learned from it. Every time we play or practice, it’s a learning block. The idea here is to get the kids to react, not think, just to flow with the game.
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Building Strong Players and Stronger Character
The book explores the deeper purpose of youth sports. It reminds readers that sports are not simply competitions but opportunities for growth. Brainard emphasizes that every practice and every game teaches discipline, teamwork, and resilience. These lessons extend beyond the field and shape how children face life’s challenges.
The book also highlights the relationship between coach and child. It encourages parents, especially fathers, to recognize the pressures young athletes experience and to respond with patience and understanding. Rather than pushing for perfection, the focus is on guiding children to develop confidence and enjoy the process of learning.
Through personal experiences and practical advice, Brainard shows how coaching becomes a shared journey. He explains how victories and defeats both offer valuable lessons, helping children learn perseverance, responsibility, and self-belief. The message is clear: coaching done with empathy and awareness can influence a child’s life in lasting ways.
The Mind Behind the Message
Doug Brainard began coaching in 1993 and continues to share his knowledge and experience today. Living in Gallatin, Tennessee, he has spent decades working with young athletes, shaping his understanding of how sports impact children’s growth and development. His long coaching career gives this book a grounded and practical voice.
His writing style is straightforward and sincere, much like a conversation with a trusted mentor. He communicates ideas clearly, focusing on real experiences and honest reflection. The approach makes his advice accessible and relatable for parents, coaches, and anyone involved in youth sports.
Why This Book Matters
If you want a better way to guide young athletes while building stronger connections with them, Threw These Eyes: Advice for Dads and Coaches by Doug Brainard offers valuable insight and practical wisdom. This book encourages readers to coach with purpose, patience, and heart, making every moment on the field meaningful.
Threw These Eyes Advice for Dads and Coaches
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